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     One of my Christmas gifts was a planner. (Side note: I love any and all things to do with paper, writing, creativeness, planning, list-making and color.) I happen to be a bit picky about my planners and calendars, this one was gorgeous and I was excited to get it- but it doesn't have enough space for me to use on a daily basis. I pondered and pondered what I could use this planner for and then it HIT ME! I will make this planner my 365 days of kindness keeper!

THIS is an invitation for you to join me!

Materials:
A planner or calender of sorts
Your imagination
A pen, pencil or marker

      How it works: Once you have found the planner or calendar you will be using you simply make a conscience effort everyday to write down one act of kindness you put forth that day. It doesn't have to be any thing HUGE, just something nice. You might find yourself plotting very kind and random things to do for others. Your act of kindness does not have to be for someone you know, it could very well be a stranger on the street who dropped something and you helped her pick it up. It could be you picking up a friends kids from school who couldn't get out of a meeting in time. Anything that provides a hand to another person- I can't wait to hear what you all create in your planners.
 


Comments

Kim Jenkins

Sun, 27 Dec 2009 19:42:59

Oh my gosh....somehow I missed this tweet today.. While going through my twitterberry messages tonight, I saw it. Holy moly I am SO in love with this idea!!! I too love paper! I'll walk into a book store just to smell it. ha ha.

You are so wildly creative. I LOVE IT!! Thank you for this wonderful idea for 2010. It just feeeeels good!

 

Megan Monique

Sun, 27 Dec 2009 20:32:45

So glad you like the idea Sweetie!

When I was little, I use to want to work at the post office BC I love the way it smelled inside. Lol! Mmm paper!

 

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 08:19:16

Megan, I love this idea and will joyfully join in!!

 

Megan Monique

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 08:28:03

Hooray Tabitha! Please do come back to this blog and post what kinds of acts you do and what came of them. I can't wait to hear all of your stories.

 

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 18:59:55

So..It's New Year's Day. Day 1 of 365 days of kindness. I was at the mall, looking for opportunities to do a RAK. A woman approaching Macy's had both of her hands full with packages. I went to the double-door entry, opened one door and stepped aside to let her through. I felt very kind. :) The funny thing about it is, she scoffed at me and opened the other door, then walked through it. Her response proved to me the necessity of this project...people are unfamiliar with simple acts of kindness and don't know how to respond. So...onward! Can't wait for tomorrow.

 

Megan Monique

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 19:04:31

Kim- you rock! A friend of mine always gets pissy when he does something kind for someone else and gets a 'scoff' as a response. I find it funny BC there is no reason to do something kind for another person if you are doing it simple for the 'expected reaction' they give you. 9 times out of 10 you won't get the response you thought BC we have no influence over others unless they choose to let us.

The acts of kindness we commit should be for very good of our own soul. If those that are effect by our acts appreciate them GREAT (Bonus points!) If not- so what?!

Three cheers for you my love!
Megan

 

Sun, 03 Jan 2010 06:57:09

Day 2. My afternoon unexpectedly opened up in terms of time. Thinking about one of my friends who was home with her son and feeling lonely (her hubby is out of town visiting his very sick mother), I gathered two of my friends and their kids and we spent the evening visiting her. She lives pretty darned far...1-1/2 hours from my house....but I know those feelings of loneliness. There is nothing like the laughter of friends to pull you out of it for awhile. We had pizza, we played Twilight Scene-It, we watched New Moon, all while the kids played together. It was a great night and it felt good to step outside of myself and consider someone else. :)

 

Megan Monique

Sun, 03 Jan 2010 09:52:07

Kim-
I cannot be more excited that you are taking this on with me. AND even more so that you go out of your way to share what it is you are doing with me.

Together, we can change our worlds. Big hugs to you for putting your friend first, I know she appreciated it.

XO
MeganMonique

 

Mon, 04 Jan 2010 06:47:47

Day 3 was simple. I mostly just stayed in a place of ease...letting cars go before me on the road and allowing the rushing people to rush why I remained calm and easy-going. I also was kind to myself by spending super quality connection time with my girls today, shopping and laughing and having fun. :)

 

Megan Monique

Mon, 04 Jan 2010 10:13:00

I love it Kim! Everyday when I see your comment I get so excited that there is someone going on this journey with me!

 

Tue, 05 Jan 2010 06:22:20

I took my kindness mission a step deeper into contribution. Today I started a fundraising event for a local youth-driven organization who assists foster children. I feel so excited.

Today I also worked lovingly on the free giveaway I'm handing out to thank each of my workshop participants on Sunday.

 

Megan Monique

Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:59:26

Big Hugs to you Kim. My friend is working on adopting right now. It is a very important topic to me. Thank you for your contribution.

-MeganMonique

 

Tue, 05 Jan 2010 10:56:02

Megan,
Love the picture of you and dad. What a nice treat for him to have dinner made by his daughter. Soooo sweet. :)

 

Kim Jenkins

Wed, 06 Jan 2010 07:33:42

Well...sadly, I don't have much to report for yesterday. I coordinated a luncheon between old friends, but the event is not going to happen after all. Do I still get credit for trying? :)

So instead, I'd like to report about a kindness done to ME. I have these scratch-off coupons for a local strip mall The idea is to bring in the coupon and scratch it off upon purchase to reveal the discount. My daughter wanted a donut yesterday so we took one of the coupons in - it was for a free 1/2 dozen donuts when you buy a 1/2 dozen. Well I only had a dollar and some change to spend...the guy behind the counter GAVE us the 1/2 dozen donuts for free..with no purchase necessary. ha ha...I walked out of the donut shop feeling like I'd SCORED!! Thank you kind donut man. I believe it's all a matter of you get what you give so my receiving was no accident. ;)

 

Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:36:12

What a sweetie you are. I love your idea and I'm signing up to do it.
Love your blog as well. Go to it girl-I'll be checking in to see how it's going.

 

Megan Monique

Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:40:43

Kim,

Yes! You still get credit for trying. I too am learning that it takes effort looking for acts of kindness to commit. But certainly worth it.

Congrats on your free donuts! Indeed, no accident. ;)

 

Megan Monique

Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:43:41

HOORAY Heather! I am so glad you are joining us for 365 Days of Kindness! Thank you for the compliments on the site.

Please feel free to send in pictures of your acts of kindness so that I can put them on the front page of the site!

MeganMH@gmail.com

 

Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:24:09

I'm loving the pictures of your acts, Megan. I haven't posted in awhile so I'll talk about today.
1) Delivered breakfast sweets to my daughter's 5th grade class.
2) Let two people go ahead of me in line at the grocery store who looked like they were on their lunch hour and needed to get out quickly.
3) Took 2 shopping cards from the parking lot and returned them to the store.
4) Took a little girl home after homework club.

My 10 year old daughter now wants a journal of her own so SHE can do her acts of kindness too! It's spreading!! :)

 

Megan Monique

Wed, 13 Jan 2010 10:01:09

Kim, you are ROCKIN IT girl!

 

Caren

Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:47:48

Oh I was so excited to see that I was part of your 365 Days of Kindness. You did such a sweet thing for me. I even told a friend at work that day that it was so kind of you to offer to do it. You are such an awesome, and SEXY woman. Love you,
Caren

 



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